K is for Kinky Sex Positions

K is for Kinky Sex Positions

What are kinky sex positions?

In short, it is an unusual sex position.  Some of these positions allow for adding some kinky activities (like bondage, wax play, or a spanking) and others are simply a bit different.  Warning: Some of these kinky sex positions require extraordinary limberness and flexibility.  I have noted these so you can take care when attempting them.

Here are 9 kinky sex positions you want to know…

Position 1: The David Copperfield.  The receiver lies on their back with a pillow under hips.  The giver slides down and performs oral sex on the receiver.  The pillow is the magic as it lifts you into the best position to receive oral love.

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Position 2: Pushed up against the wall.  Think about all those movies where the couple can’t wait to have sex.  He pushes her up against the wall, often lifting her off the ground (OK here is where one of those warnings goes! Suspending someone against a wall takes lots of strength).  You can do this one without lifting someone and suspending them, but simply by pushing them against the wall and grabbing them roughly, pulling hair.  The power involved in this position makes it extra hot.

Position 3: Man lying on his back and woman kneeling over his face (of course this can be done with two men, two women…).  This is a fantastic kinky sex position for some great oral sex.  You can be in control of the action, increasing pressure by bearing down and decreasing it by rising up.  You can tease your partner by just brushing your sex against their lips. Or you can make breathing just a bit difficulty. Seriously seriously scorching.

Position 4: Doggy style. This favourite position allows for deep penetration and easy access to ass, clitoris and breasts allowing for lots of cross stimulation and sometimes even a little light torture (nipple pinching or spanking for example).   Pillows can be used to raise the rear up even higher and make penetration even deeper.  This is also a good kinky sex position for extra support if you have some flexibility issues. It’s also a great position for exploring all sorts of kink from a light spanking (or nipple tweaking) to some more intense pain.

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Position 5 Reverse Cowgirl: Climb on top facing the feet!  This is a fantastic position for g-spot stimulation and for stimulation of lots of other rarely touched spots.  It gives both of you a different kind of control.  And the view isn’t bad either.

Position 6: The X which is very similar to a scissors position.  In this position, when done correctly, more clitoral contact is possible.  I found this position complicated with a man but easier with a woman.

Position 7: Bound to the bed:  This position allows for all sorts of kinky fun.  The bondage in and of itself can be very arousing.  But bondage is often a means to an end.  Legs and arms bound to the four posts of a bed leaves the person who is bound extremely open and available.

Now is the time to enjoy some teasing and perhaps employ a blindfold as well so that they cannot see what is coming.  There are lots of varieties of this position on a bed.  You can use rope, ties, silk, fabric, or handcuffs, wrists cuffs and ankle cuffs.   You can bind hands only or legs only.  You can blindfold.  You can use a gag.  Don’t forget that when you bind someone you should not let them out of your sight – particularly if you have also gagged them.  If you pop out of the room, make sure the means of release is within reach of the person who is bound, just in case.

Position 8:  Bound on the stomach.   This can be flat on the bed – hands and feet to the posts.  Or it can be over a bench or a chair so the ass is in the air.  As in position 7, this makes the bound person accessible.  This is a great position to try spanking or flogging in.

Position 9: Bound legs over head.  Warning this one does require significant flexibility and the partner who is penetrating needs to be careful how much weight they put on the receiver in this position.  So you lie on your back and bring your legs up over your shoulders and over your head and get bound to the bedposts in this position.

This increases vulnerability.  The person is wide open for penetration or double penetration and available for flogging, spanking or even for tickling.   Without the binding, this is known as the pile driver for double penetration.

If you are interested in exploring more kinky sex positions, why not sign up for a 30-minute free strategy session with me or pick up my free eBook 74 Movies That Are Not Pornography.  Check out my podcasts The A to Z of Sex (out every Monday) and Sex Spoken Here.

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