Do you wish your relationships could be as full of fire as they were when you were younger? Or was your sex life never as smoking as you wanted it to be? When you and your lover have alone time, do you look forward to exciting intimacy or do you dread the routine? If any of these questions stand out to you, you are in the right place.
Here we talk about sex in all its forms – because it is good to talk about it, for you, for your current partners and for any future relationships you create.
As a psychologist since 1987, I have worked with people exploring sexuality, working through trauma and people in various stages of intimate relationships. I have worked with families and divorcing spouses. As a whole life relationship coach, I have worked with couples and relationship groups to help heal relationships or to help people decide to end them and do so with grace and care. My greatest joy is working with people to create their sizzling hot enduring sexual lives. To me, there is nothing sadder than a life full of regret. I know that everyone can have her ideal sexual relationship. My mission is to show you how to create yours.
I’m Lori Beth and I absolutely love my life. I have a brilliant career, fantastic family life and a lovely home. My husband and I have the hottest spiciest sex life. I am so grateful for the love and support that has made it possible for me to get to this place.
The road to my ideal intimate life was steep and rocky. I got married at 27 to a British man I met at a conference. I was excited to be his wife but had doubts that this was the relationship for me. Against the advice of my nearest and my gut instincts, I married him anyway. We had sex 12 times in 8 years – enough said.
We argued about sex. I felt unattractive, alone. After 7 ½ years, I set out on my own again.
I was optimistic that I could find a more exciting relationship second time around. I remarried at 37. Looking back, I chose a father for my child rather than a husband. We were not sexually compatible. I tried to talk about my desires and I heard ‘I don’t like that.’ After having my son, I became ill and our sex life came to a complete halt. I felt rejected and I am sure he felt rejected as well.
We separated in 2008 and I took myself off to California for a style make over and to attend a conference. On my way to the conference, an SUV plowed through a red light demolishing my car. I walked away from the scene unscathed. From that moment, I resolved to live my life fully. I would not settle for a sexless relationship again. I arrived at the conference and saw an Adonis across the room. He embodied the qualities that set me on fire. The sex was electric. The relationship was red hot but transitory. In 2009, I met my ideal partner at the same conference. TJ and I married in 2014.
I am bisexual and my ideal sex life includes more than one partner. Though I was honest about my needs, my partners found it hard to negotiate honestly so as a result my first two marriages were peppered with affairs. From the start of my relationship with TJ, we prioritised communicating about our needs and desires. We clearly negotiate so that we can both get what we need. Throughout our 6 years together, we continue to talk about our needs, desires and fantasies. Honest, direct communication is the first key to our relationship success.
If you want that fresh relationship full of spark, excitement and connection, you have come to the right place. With a bit of attention and inspiration, I can help you create or re-create your heart’s desire.
I have a Master’s (1987) and PhD (1995) in clinical psychology. As a psychologist, I work with children and adults, individuals, couples, groups and families. I worked with the Family Courts for over 20 years providing assessments, helping families to heal from divorce and other trauma. I provided therapy for those same groups for 28 years.
As a qualified coach I work with people who want to find their perfect relationships, improve their existing relationships, transform their lives to follow their heart’s desire. I work with people of all genders, sexualities, races, creeds and cultures to rediscover their core truths and having done so, revamp their relationships to honour their truths.
I identify as polyamorous and bisexual, am kink knowledgeable and love working with people who choose alternative lifestyles as well as those who choose travel a more traditional path.