C is for Creativity

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D is for Dancing and Dakinis
Hi everyone! Welcome to the A to Z of Sex with me, Dr Lori Beth Bisbey. I am a sex and intimacy coach and psychologist and I’ve spent the last 30 + years helping people to create hot and healthy sexual and intimate relationships. We are working our way through the erotic alphabet one letter at a time. Today the letter is C and C is for Creativity.

Creativity in sex and intimacy is often confined to trying imaginative positions or activities. True creativity can be thinking outside the box.

Joining me to talk about creativity is Tabitha Rayne. She is an award-winning erotica author and inventor of the Ruby Glow ride-on vibrator. She believes in the power of sensuality, pleasure and sexual empowerment and is particularly interested in creating easy to use sex toys to help enable this.

“I wanted a vibrator I could use while writing saucy erotica on my computer and quickly realised that this shape was something that could be used by many women and vulva owners. Perhaps you don’t like phallic sex toys, or you have weakness in your wrists, mobility issues or you simply can’t reach to operate a traditional sex toy. I sometimes suffer from arthritis and back pain so being able to sit on Ruby Glow without having to lean over or reach down made a big difference to me.” Tabitha Rayne

We talk about creativity this week and cover writing on the body, reading erotica, creating erotica. Creativity frees people to follow their imaginations.

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